Good or Bad?

Thank you to the lovely ladies for commenting on my start. It is nice to know that I am not the only one with these questions. God has this way that even when I am doing my own thing I can never forget about Him. He has done so much for me even though I don't deserve it. Ah 'sigh!' Amazing Grace and Mercy.

Anyways. I am not sure what to think about this Facebook thingy yet. I mean for the most part it's been an excellent way to catch up with old friends and keep in touch with family. But, I have heard of other people being contacted by others that they really don't care to chat with. This may not be such a grand thing.

There is really no one on my list or have I come across anyone that I really don't want to chat with. It just that it's more of the "what if'...?" that seem to pop into the mind when finding someone that I haven't talked to for awhile. I have had a moment when I had to shake myself vigorously out of a dream like state where for the slightest moment my mind entertains that "what if...?" question. I don't like living thinking "what if things at this time of my life went differently?". There are no 'what ifs.?'..!!". I don't think it is healthy. The past can not be changed. It is not meant to be changed. So I don't think there is any point in wallowing over it.

On the other hand I have heard some amazing stories of people who have friends from the past they have been able to have a positive Godly influence on. Maybe I am one of those people being positively influenced. I can only pray that I may be used as a voice of reason for God, in spite of myself.

So, anyways I guess that I just answered my own query. I think just like anything else when used in the right way and in the right frame of mind it can be a good thing. Because after all God made everything. And what God made is good. Therefore it is good. It just what man decides to do with it that can be destructive and sinful or used to go for the Gold.